We don’t believe in instant success (despite so-called insta-sensations like Justin Bieber). Hardly anything happens overnight.
We do believe in pushing yourself forward, preferably with a string of bite-size efforts so you don’t get overwhelmed. But first you need to admit there’s something to push for, that you might be stuck in some way. And that’s easier to do when you look at being stuck as a good thing. Think of it as a chance to make your life better instead of some kind of failing.