Go for coffee
Not clicking with someone can make us feel out of place, even in our comfort zone. We may want to please the other person but not know how. Or we don’t know what he expects. Sometimes, it’s lack of common ground. That’s a good time to try changing things up: Invite him for a coffee and pastry at a new café, run an errand together, or take in a movie. The shared experience helps shift the dynamics toward better equilibrium.